Are you at higher risk of developing breast or cervical cancer?

Being a lesbian does not directly influence the frequency of these cancers. But there are certain risk factors that are particularly prevalent among women who love women. For that reason, it’s important to be informed.

The  fear of homophobic reactions or use contraception less frequently and therefore less likely to see medical professional and often hesitate to talk about their emotional or sexual lives, make Lesbian less likely other women to undergo screening examinations (mammograms or pap smears) that would allow early detection of possible breast or cervical cancer.

Social and family pressures to Lesbians can result a depression that made them pay less attention to their health, and reluctant to regularly self-examination their breast. It’s also result in overweight and overindulge in alcohol and tobacco that increases the risk of breast and cervical cancer. And also make the risk even higher, because Lesbians are less likely to have children before the age of 30.

Loving yourself as a lesbian or bisexual woman also means taking care of yourself and watching your health!

Working outfit: an armor to our own war

Yes, many women out there say that you have to wear what comfort you the most. And usually they will look down on people who are trying too many efforts. Either is fine but when we actually talk about work place, you still have boundaries. Because admit it, fashion IS statement. Another thing that is true, people will judge you by the way you dressed (both negatives and positives way). And to add another thing, the way you look can make either good or bad impressions. This is one of the 'reality bites' thing that we have to endure. Are we going to deny it? it has a risk attached, and you cant blame other people if that happend. Are we going to follow it? I bet we're going to need 'ourself'. So, BE SMART. If you start with “Naahh, people will look for our skills not our looks” it’s time to change it, because seriously, unless you work in the art field, what you wear, matter. Even sometimes an artist has to force themselves to wear something that is not ‘comfortable’. Or if your work regarding “dirt” let say, mining field or construction site, you should think about your working outfit also, don’t let fashion get in the way, though.

But don’t let boundaries hold yourself up. Getting dressed for the office doesn't mean leaving your personal style behind. Find out which looks give you a polished, professional look and which fashion can be a career killer.

Polished, Not Fashion Victim or Anti-Fashion.

Your goal to getting dressed for work is to project a professional, competent image, regardless of your employment level or career path. Getting there is not easy, there’s a several step.

Simple Guidelines To Find Your Passion For Your Career

Career and Future, are probably the most considered matters in everybody’s mind.

Questions like :
* What is the perfect job for me?
* What should I do?
* What will my future be?
* Which company should I join?
..and so many other questions and choices to make.

But I believe that inside of each of us there’s a piece of good news! The good news is that you really don’t know how great you can be, how much you can love, what you can accomplish, and what your potential is! (Steven R.Covey)

All we need to do is to identify our natural talent and develop them into strength. Years ago, a friend of mine asked, “Why are you still working for someone? Why are you keep waiting for a monthly salary? Are you happy? Do you feel whole?” and my gratitude for him is endless, because since that moment I decided to do what I like to do, the things that I’m naturally good at, the things that I get passionate about. Get an idea now? You see, over time these natural talents of us reveals themselves, but we choose not to pay attention, sometimes we just see them as a hobby, but actually we can choose to refine them into a powerful strength in our life.

Our potentials includes the mind setting, feelings, and behaviors that naturally comes out by it self and makes us feel whole, it seems like we’re just good at it and enjoy doing it. That is what it's called passion.

If You Don't Love Yourself, Who Else Is Going To Love You?

you ask: "Why don't I trust you?"

It is simple: you don't trust yourself. START TRUSTING YOURSELF -- that is the fundamental lesson, the first lesson. START LOVING YOURSELF. If you don't love yourself, who else is going to love you? But remember, if you ONLY love yourself, your love will be very poor.

"If you are not for yourself, who will be?" And also, "If you are only for yourself, then what meaning your life can ever have?" A tremendously significant statement -- remember it! LOVE YOURSELF BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF, NOBODY ELSE WILL EVER BE ABLE TO LOVE YOU.

You cannot love a person who hates herself. AND, ON THIS UNFORTUNATE EARTH, ALMOST EVERYBODY HATES HERSELF, everybody condemns herself. How can you love a person who is condemnatory towards herself?

SHE WILL NOT BELIEVE YOU. She cannot love herself, how you dare? She cannot love herself, how you can love her? She will suspect some game, some trick, some trip. She will suspect that you must be after something else. She will suspect that you are trying to deceive her in the name of love. She will be very cautious, alert. AND HER SUSPICION WILL POISON YOUR BEING.

AND IF YOU LOVE A PERSON WHO HATES HERSELF, YOU ARE TRYING TO DESTROY HER CONCEPT ABOUT HERSELF. And nobody easily drops her concept about herself. That is her identity. She will fight with you, she will prove to you that she is right and you are wrong.

THAT'S WHAT IS HAPPENING IN EVERY LOVE RELATIONSHIP -- in every so-called "love relationship" . It is happening between every lover and beloved, every man and every woman. HOW CAN YOU DESTROY THE OTHER'S CONCEPT ABOUT HERSELF? That is her identity, that is her ego, that's how she knows herself. If you take it away, she will not know who she is. It is too risky. She cannot drop her concept so easily. SHE WILL PROVE TO YOU THAT SHE'S NOT WORTH LOVING, SHE'S ONLY WORTH HATING.

And the same is the case with you: YOU ALSO HATE YOURSELF, YOU CANNOT ALLOW ANYBODY ELSE TO LOVE YOU. Whenever somebody comes with loving energy around you, you shrink, you want to escape. You are afraid. You know perfectly well that you are unworthy of love. You know that only on the surface you look so good, so beautiful -- deep down you are ugly.

And if you allow this person to love you, sooner or later -- and it is going to be sooner than later -- SHE WILL COME TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE IN REALITY. How long you will be able to pretend with a person with whom you have to live and love?

YOU CAN PRETEND IN THE MARKETPLACE, -- you can pretend: smiles, all smiles. You can have a beautiful acting, roll-playing. BUT IF YOU LIVE WITH SOMEONE FOR TWENTY-FOUR HOURS, then it is tiring to go on smiling and smiling and smiling. Then the smile tires -- because it is phony. It is just an exercise of the lips. And the lips become tired. How can you go on being sweet? YOUR BITTERNESS WILL SURFACE.

HENCE, BY THE TIME THE HONEYMOON IS OVER, EVERYTHING IS OVER. Both have known each other's reality. Both have known each other's phoniness. Both have known each other's falsity. One is afraid to become intimate. TO BE INTIMATE MEANS YOU WILL HAVE TO PUT ASIDE THE ROLL. And you know who you are -- worthless, just dirt.

Vien

* It's Start from you ! *